The Bad Boyfriend, the Decent Boyfriend
When it comes to types of boyfriends out there, guys fall into three categories the bad boyfriends, the decent boyfriends, and prince charming. The bad boyfriend is the guy that doesn’t treat his girlfriend the way she deserves to be treated and tends to go after girls with low self-confidence because honestly he couldn’t get any other girl. He does many things to her including cheating, lying, abusing, using, and not meeting her needs. He cheats on her over and over knowing she will take him back. He might mentally or physically abuse her making her feel bad or sad.
He uses her for what she can offer him and almost expects it in a way. A lot of bad boyfriends don’t meet their girlfriend’s needs. He doesn’t pay attention to her needs, like, or wants. He does all this because he simply does not care for her. This type of boyfriend is the lowest of all boyfriends, and if you are this guy then you need to understand that she will eventually get a backbone and dump you. The next type is the decent boyfriend; this is the boyfriend that tries sometimes. He tries to understand what she wants and needs and tries to give it to her.
He doesn’t know exactly what she wants but tries to please her with whatever he does know. He loves her but wishes she was less nagging and gets upset with it instead of trying to fix the problem. He gets along with some of her family and friends. The decent boyfriend would rather watch TV or play video games then talk or hangout with his girlfriend. He may not be very romantic and he will hardly ever surprise her with things or occasions. He doesn’t like expectations put on him by her and he tries not to do anything so that she will not start to expect stuff.
This type of boyfriend pleases her to some degree but doesn’t really get her and put effort into understand her. This guy makes women question a lot of things and go through moods of feeling good and feeling angry. The confusion shows itself as anger or tears mostly which makes him more confused and hurt her more. If you are this guy you need to start rethinking on how you go about relationships. You are never going to be in a healthy and good relationship with a girl until you start communicating properly and understanding her needs and meeting them. The last type of boyfriend would be prince charming.
Obviously this guy is a catch and women would love to have him as a boyfriend. He’s not without some faults but when it comes to their relationship he puts more effort in then the other guys. His traits would include: he understands what she needs emotionally, he communicates well which includes both talking and listening, he doesn’t lie or use her but instead shares his life with her, he is patient with her and her emotions and he is always there for her to lean on. He surprises her with things that show her how much he cares about her, he doesn’t let her get down on herself and instead lifts her up.
And last he views her as a lover and a best friend. This guy gets his woman and if he doesn’t get her then he figures out how to please his woman. He’s not a pushover but he’s genuinely a nice guy who cares about her and her feelings. Of course there are many other types of boyfriends but these are the main three that I have found that my past boyfriends have fallen under, except prince charming. I have not yet found him but one day I’ll know exactly who he is from dating the other type of boyfriends. Every girl goes through having a bad boyfriend and a decent boyfriend but you only date one prince charming.
