How to Develop Self Confidence
Do you wanna develop more confidence? Do you wanna be comfortable with life and people? Read this article for great tips on how to be confident and become a pro at confidence.
Difficulty: Moderately Easy
Instructions Things You’ll Need:
- New Clothes
- Haircut
- Smile
- increasing self confidence everyday! Being able to become self confident can take you many places.
Learn to fake a smile every time you are around people, even if you don’t feel you need to. This will show people that you interested and a friendly person.
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wearing clothes. Keep yourself looking good, whether its making your hair look good, buying a new outfit, getting new shoes, or etc.
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build self confidence. Always, look straight ahead and do not look down, don’t look around feeling self conscious of what everyone thinks. Think positive thoughts about yourself.
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confidence and self esteem. Pretend that you know the people that you meet. You can fake it until you make it! Give the impression that you are very social and love to meet people. Give the impression to people that you are a great person to be around, wherever you go.
Get out there and show people how great and confident you are!
Warnings
- Learn to fake a smile daily.
- Always keep your image beautiful and updated.
- Always look straight and think positive thoughts.
There’s no exact way to measure self confidence, but there are proven ways to increase self confidence.
Difficulty: Moderately Easy
Instructions
- Change or remove the negative components that surround your life. Don’t let others bog down your life and keep you from reaching the success you have in front of you. Recon negative environmental factors in your life that influence how you feel about yourself. Sometimes this will mean shedding bad friends from your life or even making a whole new change in your social circle.
- My next step or tool for you to become confident is to change “what you can. Looks are not as important to mature adults as many think, but what we do with our looks does matter. You may never have the celebrity looks, but you can make the best with what you were given. Go to the gym, or run, or do yoga. Anything that will make you feel better about yourself and your body. Don’t complain that you have no boyfriend/girlfriend yet you’re overweight or spend no time taking care of yourself. Don’t do it for anyone else, do it for yourself. Self confidence will only go up if you can look in the mirror and know you’re giving it your all.
- Quit procrastinating in your life. Well what does procrastination have to do with someone being becoming confident you might ask? You can’t build a high state of confidence if you’re stressed out because you waited to the last minute to do a college essay or pay the electric bill. There’s so many examples I could point out, but the less you leave till the last minute, the more you have time for the fun stuff in life. Stress is a confidence killer.
- Buy something that makes you feel hot about yourself. You know that feeling you get when you have on a nice shirt, some nice jeans or ladies a really nice outfit that just makes you feel sexy about yourself? You wear that outfit to work, or school or with that special someone, you just feel and do better that day. That is easy self confidence. There’s no need to go change your wardrobe and only buy really expensive clothes, but everyone should have one outfit that they can put on to give themselves a little extra pep in their step.
- Remember that you like yourself and you’re always looking for ways to improve yourself. When I stumbled upon self compliments, I turned a new page in my quest to become a more confident person. Every day tell yourself that you like yourself or that you are a great person 10 times.
Every Day
It’ll become habit after awhile and it’ll become cemented in your sub-conscious and your self confidence will multiply by leaps and bounds. You have to like yourself first and foremost before you can care how anyone else feels about you. Just simply look at the amount of celebrities who have all the fame and money, but yet run their lives into the ground with drugs or alcohol because they dislike themselves.
6.Forgive yourself and others. I had to let go of a lot of bad feelings I had about what I’d done/not done in my past and how others treated me in my past. You can’t change the past and it’ll only keep your progress limited if you keep harboring bad feelings. Forgive yourself and others. Let yourself find peace and you’ll make room for more self confidence in your life.
